Steps

Adore and obey, don’t fulminate and flee
Be a man not a guy
A producer not a consumer
Solution not problem
(or be quiet)
(which doesn’t mean don’t talk ever)
Measured not random
Good not bad
Lean not fat
Walking not sitting
Writing not watching
Reading not watching
Watching not sleeping
Pay attention!
People not things
Paper not screens
Trees not screens
Clean not dirty
Neat not cluttered
(mostly)
Typing not keyboard
Pen not typing
Letter not email
Call not letter
Think, think, think
Feel, feel, feel, feel
Don’t confuse them!
Movies over TV
(except for Katy’s)
Active not passive
Love God and others, especially M

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